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A Look Inside the Story
Here is an example of how I used their activity
monitor. When I happened to find a
single or a couple we were a little intrigued by who also just happened to be
online, I would send them an email. Let’s
say I noticed that they had just clicked on someone’s profile. Of course, the
site didn’t reveal who the member was looking at however I knew that the other
member started looking at a profile twenty-three seconds ago. By refreshing the
screen frequently, I kept tract that another five or ten seconds passed without
the member going anywhere else on the site. Finally, I would see their last page
viewed as their email inbox; I had them then.
“Good,” I would say. “Now they will see the email I
just sent.” Impatiently, I would flip back and forth between the member’s
profile and my own sent mail page so that I could see when they opened the one I
had sent to them.
Occasionally, despite the fact that the member
checked their inbox, they did not open the email I sent them. This made it very
clear to me that probably, the member was not interested enough to even see what
I had sent them. Often, this was totally verified by another site feature that
indicated whether the email I sent was deleted, having never been opened.
Folks, time is too short to worry about people who
are not interested in you so, again using the site’s features, I typed in a note
about them so that I could refer to it in the future should I forget how much of
a super asshole they were.